Tips For Becoming A Real Man
How far would you go to save the relationship with the woman you love?
There’s a lot of relationship advice out there preaching the need for better communication. That makes sense. After all, without communication a relationship can fall apart quickly.
When we love a person, we always want to improve and be a better version of ourselves. Changing for the better can be beneficial to ourselves, our relationship, and our partners. So, how can we be a better man for our woman? Read on to see some of the ways that can be effective for you:
1. A real man fulfills his partner mentally and sexually
He knows the majority of time in any relationship is spent doing nonphysical, nonsexual things. Besides whispering to her how beautiful she is or how he is going to make hot, passionate love to her when he gets back home in the evening, he also engages her in meaningful discussions about life, plans with her for the future, and cracks jokes to lighten and liven moments together. He displays an awareness, intelligence and sensitivity that makes his actions not only timely, but also genuinely charming.
2. Take responsibility
Learn from Adam. Don't do things you know are wrong and then blame others. If you make a mistake, take responsibility for your actions. One of the meanings of the word "husband" is someone who skillfully manages his household. A manager takes responsibility. As Adam experienced, there is little sympathy for a man who blames a woman for something that has gone wrong. He's often still held responsible. People will ask him, "Why did you let it go on?" A man has to look at himself and see how he can change his own actions to properly handle similar situations.
3. Make her feel like a real woman
To make a woman feel like a real woman, you need to make her feel girly and feminine in response to your masculinity. When you are consistently a masculine man (e.g. you are emotionally strong, you don’t supress your masculine vibe around anyone, you are confident, etc), she can relax into being a feminine woman around you.
A mistake that a lot of guys make in a relationship, is to get too comfortable with their woman to the point where he treats her like a friend or “one of the guys” rather than treating her as his girl or woman. Treating her like a neutral friend or like she is one of the guys, doesn’t make her feel like a real woman.
You’ve always got to let your woman to be in a position where she feels girly and feminine around you. When you do that, she will naturally see you as being the man in the relationship.
4. Include her in the decisions that you make
Have you decided to leave your job and look for a new one? Inform her about it, and ask her for her opinion. Doing so can make her feel that she is valued and that her opinion matters.
5. A real man speaks his mind—always.
He is not afraid or timid to say what’s on his mind. He will say no without fear whenever he doesn’t agree with something. He will debate you on topics he is not comfortable with without losing his cool. He will be straightforward and talk to you as an equal, then allow you to make your own conclusions or take whatever action you wish. This does not mean he is indifferent or treats women badly. He just doesn’t agree with her on everything. He knows a “Yes-man” is no man at all.
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