How To Make A Girl Fall In Love With You
There is probably some girl in your life that evokes very strong feelings in you. Perhaps you’ve asked yourself this question a couple of times already, wondering how to make her fall in love with you the next time she sees you.There’s no magic formula to cure a broken heart, that’s for sure. On the flip side, there isn’t a love potion that I know of that’s going to make someone fall for you.
From your date ideas to how you stay in communication, take these tips from experts on how to make a woman love you:
1. Know What Women Want In A Man
Let’s get a few things straight: a girl that only wants a “man” that treats her roughly and poorly is a woman who hasn’t learned to love herself, know her value, or heal her wounds. Likewise, a guy who uses bullying and force in the name of “masculinity” is just as lost. We’ve all got work to do on ourselves and we attract a reflection of what we are.
What women want in a man is a human being who stands in his courage to defend what is right and true. A man who will take responsibility for his thoughts, feelings, and actions.
Women want a guy who will put the work into communicating with respect and humility. She wants a man who is eager to grow, willing to forgive, and humble enough to serve. She wants a man who knows her value and his own, who sees the bigger picture and the intricate details.
2. Displays of Affection
Compliments and presents are good things if done right. Make them on your terms: don’t give in to her every wish, instead tease her a bit and surprise her at a later point. You don’t want to look needy and clingy, so place your displays of affection carefully and make them count
3. Create An Adventure
The point here is to create great memories together because the more great memories you create, the more invested and connected she will feel.
So, instead of just going to dinner and the movies, like every other guy, plan something more memorable and original like fun activities together
4. Support Her Royally
Think of this like you might a cheerleader. You need to show her you will be there to encourage her on and support her in her daily battles. This doesn’t mean you have to agree with everything she does and says, that would make you a pushover puppet.
However, you should show her you appreciate and respect her for her life choices. That’s just plain magical in the dating game.
5. Be Gentle, Man
There’s a long-standing myth that girls only date jerks. But it’s simply not true. Because as time goes on, most girls simply want a supportive and easy going teammate to navigate the field of life.
Because life is like playing football. You dodge a bunch of hazards while trying to reach your goal… and sometimes you get knocked down.
So it’s nice to have a teammate to pick you back up. And being that helpful and reliable person (but not forcing it)… is the gentleman thing to do.
6. Be Mindful of Body Language
There’s no doubt about it, body language can be more important than the words you use when you’re looking to attract a woman. Most guys destroy any chance of success by projecting nervous, submissive, or even apologetic body language and tone-of-voice when they are figuring out how to approach a girl. All of these behaviors send the signal that they aren’t ready to be her ‘Mr. Right’ – which instantly shuts down a woman’s receptiveness to being approached. Vicious cycle, right?
However, once a man paves the way to connecting with a woman by losing the nervous twitches, sustaining eye contact and speaking, strongly, slowly and clearly, he’s halfway to winning her full attention. Act confident and you will be confident.
7. Tell Her How Much You Enjoy Spending Time With Her
This can come in all sorts of different shapes and forms. You can tell her face to face that you really enjoy hanging out with her. Another route is to drop her a text or email to make sure she knows that she’s on your mind.
Or you can drop her a line on social media. You just want to make it crystal clear that you like being with her. She needs to know that if you are going to be successful making her fall in love with you.