10 Tips To Satisfy Your Man In Bed

Insanely Tips To Please Your Man In Bed

You probably want to know how to please your man in bed. But guys aren't always so verbal about what they need.

The bedroom is one of the great stages of male performance, so what you see on TV is typically far from what can (and should) be delivered in reality. That's why sex experts chimed in with more accurate insight about what guys really want you to know when the two of you climb into bed. Here are the top sex tips for women.

1. Do It With the Lights On

You may be worried about what your husband thinks of your post-breast-feeding boobs, your C-section scar, or that at some point, he'll stop being attracted to you because you look a little — OK, a lot—different than you did on your wedding day. But men rarely notice your self-perceived flaws — they only become aware of them if you're preoccupied with them or go out of your way to cover up. "It's true, men are very visual," says relationship expert Bernardo Mendez. "But it's really about wanting to be able to actually see you move, preferably with no clothes on. We're validated by how happy we can make you in bed, and that's what we're focused on—not on how much you may have changed." So allow him see you. All of you.

2. Climb on Top of Your Husband And Take The Pressure Off

I’m not talking about taking physical pressure off. I mean taking psychological pressure off. When you’re the one on top, you’re more in control. In other positions, he’s the one doing the moving, and chances are he’s thinking about what he needs to do to make you feel good. In this position, you have most of the power, so you can think about satisfying him without him worry about satisfying you. He can literally lie back and enjoy it! (Also, he can use his hands in more interesting ways.)

3. Try New Sex Positions

Different guys like different positions. You may find that your man loves being on top and in control when you are having sex. Or maybe you’ll find that he prefers having doggy style sex or that he loves it when you are on top of him. The quickest way to find out what sex positions please your man the most is to ask him. But this is not always the sexiest or fun thing to do. A much more fun way to find out which positions he likes is to just try them and see which ones please him the best.

4. Flirting Mixed With Sexual Implications

There are so many ways in which you can flirt to make your partner crave you more. Words are powerful tools, so whispering something kinky in his ear, asking dirty questions, saying something in front of other people that only he will understand in a sexual manner (some code name for something sexual only the two of you know), and also using body language can work wonders when flirting is involved.

5. Broaden The Range of Pleasure

Intercourse is an intense sexual act — you have to really be in the mood for penetration to enjoy it. But master the art of using your hands to suspend your man in pure pleasure, and you’ll be able to satisfy him way more often. A lot of women scoff at handjobs because they aren’t very confident. They assume men know how to touch themselves way better than we’ll ever be able to, so they just avoid it.

6. Going Down On Him

There is nothing that screams amazing foreplay (as far as most men are concerned) as oral sex. A blow job is something men enjoy as much as sex – or perhaps even more. The tip of his penis is the most sensitive part, that’s why it needs special attention.

One of the things that will make his experience even greater is if you keep gently touching his testicles. You can suck and kiss them too. It will give him greater pleasure than he could ever have dreamed of.

7. Have a quickie

Here’s another one to take pressure off! Every now and then, have sex just to see how fast he can be satisfied. The benefits? He can totally just enjoy you. And YOU get to see how powerful you really are. 

8. Stimulate His Prostate

Another sensitive spot on a man’s body that is sometimes overlooked is his prostate. You might be aware of the prostate as an organ that gives great pleasure, so it only makes sense to play with his prostate if you want to satisfy him sexually. You may also know that you can access his prostate through his anus. This is actually one reason why so many men (and their partners) are hesitant to try prostate play.

But did you know you can stimulate his prostate through his perineum, the area between his balls and anus (sometimes called the “taint”)? Perhaps you’d be interested to know that prostate play gives some men a different type of orgasm or even allows them to become multiply orgasmic

9. Mutual Masturbation

This is also a good foreplay tactic that will guarantee the satisfaction of both parties. You’ll both be able to see each other’s faces in ecstasy and hear the moaning sounds that shift in intonation.

When senses of sight and hearing are combined with the sensation of pleasure that you provoke in each other by using hand movements, the feeling for both of you will be so remarkable, there aren’t enough words to explain it. Remember, he wants you to enjoy yourself as much as he does. His ability to satisfy you in bed is a major turn on as well as the proof of his good performance that he’s been looking for.

10. Spooning

It’s like cuddling and having sex all at once, which increases your level of intimacy. Your partner has to lie down behind you and enter you gently. This position grants him full access to your body. His hands can go all over you and it is a perfect position to demonstrate his affection and adoration for you.

While in this position, you can use your hands and gently touch his body, pulling him closer. You can also touch yourself to enhance your pleasure – and his, too, because as soon as he sees that you are masturbating in front of him, it will drive him insane for you.